Kol,
You are facing the same challenges that I do. I am getting very good attractions signs but I am not acting on them. This is why I switched to SM3 which I think is going to help me with that issue.
As I go, I'm starting to understand things about the reasons why I'm not pulling the trigger.
I have some mental blindspot about what to do when I see a girl that I'm attracted to and I have a good interaction with her. I just don't know what to do in those situations.
In fact this is so stupid simple that it is ridiculous. All that needs to be done is to ask her phone # to keep in touch or maybe setup some easygoing hook-up with her later during the week.
I'm just NOT doing it. So the only way fix my problem is to force myself doing that from now on.
2. I still have irrational fears to express my true desires to women for them. Would you be able to say to a woman in 5 minutes after meeting her that you would like to have sex with her? (This is Mode One stuff) Most of the time, I have some irrational fears stopping me from doing that. Yet, the few times that I have done it, it did work fine...
You are facing the same challenges that I do. I am getting very good attractions signs but I am not acting on them. This is why I switched to SM3 which I think is going to help me with that issue.
As I go, I'm starting to understand things about the reasons why I'm not pulling the trigger.
I have some mental blindspot about what to do when I see a girl that I'm attracted to and I have a good interaction with her. I just don't know what to do in those situations.
In fact this is so stupid simple that it is ridiculous. All that needs to be done is to ask her phone # to keep in touch or maybe setup some easygoing hook-up with her later during the week.
I'm just NOT doing it. So the only way fix my problem is to force myself doing that from now on.
2. I still have irrational fears to express my true desires to women for them. Would you be able to say to a woman in 5 minutes after meeting her that you would like to have sex with her? (This is Mode One stuff) Most of the time, I have some irrational fears stopping me from doing that. Yet, the few times that I have done it, it did work fine...
