05-13-2012, 02:59 PM
(This post was last modified: 05-13-2012, 03:00 PM by LionMonkey.)
I know what you mean. Really, I'm just playing the field to see what works and what doesn't, and by having a few "routines" a pattern will form - at the same time I get to practice talking to women and also become more comfortable around them.
Stage 3 - Day 15,
I've been focusing a lot on my martial arts lately but I've also been in this state of "zombie" the rest of time. It has been a while I have been around women and out. So I thought to myself one day, "What can I do today to move towards what I want my life to look like?" It was an epiphany to me. I've slept and been doing things only to waste my time besides the martial arts I've worked on.
Anyways, I started to do some old guided visualization meditation, I had stopped doing for a while, for 40 minutes yesterday and went out to meet up with some friends I haven't seen for a while.
I was really content, I was graceful in my movements. I was mindful.
In the beginning women noticed me everywhere I went and in the bar several girls would smile an obvious sexy smile to me when they walked past me (can't remember last time this happened to me). Few did even turn their head often to look over, girls on prey lol
This big, strong guy came over to me and asked me if I was "xyz" and I said no. He excused himself and asked me if I wanted anything. My friends were instantly like.. "a can of beer". I look at him, and he's like nono, it's okay, I'll get it. And he told me several times sorry that he thought I was this guy he thought he knew.
I talked with him for a while and it turned out that he has practiced wrestling around 10 years and was the 2. best wrestler in the country. Suddenly this guy walked past us and said, "You thought he was me?" and I realize that this big, strong guy just wanted to have an excuse to talk to me. He even said goodbye when he left the bar after a couple of hours
..
Met this cute, shapely, petite brunette who locked eyes with me a lot, instant attraction, "lets sit over there", told her about my interest in female psychology, but I didn't show any vulnerability. I think she thought of me as too high value, so she excused herself to go back to her friends suddenly.
I was surprised that she went away.
Even though my friends flirted with each other the whole night, it was a fun night with a lot of interactions, contentment and joy!
Stage 3 - Day 15,
I've been focusing a lot on my martial arts lately but I've also been in this state of "zombie" the rest of time. It has been a while I have been around women and out. So I thought to myself one day, "What can I do today to move towards what I want my life to look like?" It was an epiphany to me. I've slept and been doing things only to waste my time besides the martial arts I've worked on.
Anyways, I started to do some old guided visualization meditation, I had stopped doing for a while, for 40 minutes yesterday and went out to meet up with some friends I haven't seen for a while.
I was really content, I was graceful in my movements. I was mindful.
In the beginning women noticed me everywhere I went and in the bar several girls would smile an obvious sexy smile to me when they walked past me (can't remember last time this happened to me). Few did even turn their head often to look over, girls on prey lol
This big, strong guy came over to me and asked me if I was "xyz" and I said no. He excused himself and asked me if I wanted anything. My friends were instantly like.. "a can of beer". I look at him, and he's like nono, it's okay, I'll get it. And he told me several times sorry that he thought I was this guy he thought he knew.
I talked with him for a while and it turned out that he has practiced wrestling around 10 years and was the 2. best wrestler in the country. Suddenly this guy walked past us and said, "You thought he was me?" and I realize that this big, strong guy just wanted to have an excuse to talk to me. He even said goodbye when he left the bar after a couple of hours
..Met this cute, shapely, petite brunette who locked eyes with me a lot, instant attraction, "lets sit over there", told her about my interest in female psychology, but I didn't show any vulnerability. I think she thought of me as too high value, so she excused herself to go back to her friends suddenly.
I was surprised that she went away.
Even though my friends flirted with each other the whole night, it was a fun night with a lot of interactions, contentment and joy!
1. Do whatever you want.. risk whatever your gut tells you because.. you know you have good intentions.
2. Pressure forms the man.
3. Clarity gives space for better decisions.
