03-26-2019, 04:37 AM
It definitely won't take you ten years, specially with the subs. I've been using them for almost nine months and one of the first things I requested when I first started was that they make a sub to make friends. I'm at a point now where I can honestly say that I don't need or want a friend. I can think of many more important things to do with my time and energy. The only way that I would allow a friendship to develop now is if that person will enrich the quality of my life. This isn't coming from a place of neediness, it's coming from a place of strength. I've been there, where I've attracted needy people and those relationships are not healthy.
