02-01-2019, 12:06 AM
(01-31-2019, 11:01 PM)Benjamin Wrote: Really? In your journal, ok that's fine. But it is actually helpful, because you know some people keep asking the same questions even if it is posted in Shannon's journal. And I actually seen it when he posted it before seeing it in Shannon's journal and I thought 'cool'.
Attitudes like this are driving good people away, especially people who are helpful.
What's much more annoying is seeing advice on women all over the forum in different journals from someone who hasnt had sex. Which results in unhelpful advice.
And I know i'm not the only one who finds that annoying. Usually I just ignore it but if you want to drive someone away who's helpful then I won't.
Seriously.. you starting an argument over that and dedicating several posts to doing so shouldn't even be happening. You've gone past simply asking him to making several posts about it.
Yeah if he wants to post it on the shannon's journal discussion volume 3 thread, I agree that's fine. I can also see what you mean about informing others who don't read the forum, although I also prefer to keep my journal free of excessive posts that are unrelated to my journal, which is what I'm saying.
By the way, I've noticed you fixed up my journal and removed the extra posts, so thanks and I appreciate that.
I can see how my journal may come across as giving advice, but it's not what I'm going for at all. It's about detailing my experiences throughout the dating process, my findings and struggles. I don't claim to be good with women. Although I do understand my journals can be very lengthy and I may come across as preachy about my ideas. From now on, I'll stick to reporting experiences and results, so that it won't come across as giving advice.
Regarding the PUA thing, I have always stated I'm very against that and I'm the furthest thing from it. PUAs are into lines and techniques, which is against my nature. I'm just like every other guy who interacts with women, but it doesn't label me as PUA.
I admit I overreacted when I took my complaint onto this thread. I should have ignored it and let it go. So I apologise for causing a fuss here.
