01-15-2019, 09:38 AM
(01-15-2019, 07:59 AM)Shannon Wrote:(01-15-2019, 03:51 AM)Tigerismyspirit Wrote:(01-15-2019, 02:50 AM)DarthXedonias Wrote:(01-14-2019, 08:07 AM)Shannon Wrote:(01-14-2019, 02:57 AM)DarthXedonias Wrote: Well, hope this works out well. If this finally solves what I'm struggling with at the moment I would be forever thankful. Granted, I could be already experience TID from it in the fact that I've been getting messages like crazy on my foreign profiles just today.
I have included something that should be specifically helpful for your particular forms of self sabotage.
I appreciate that a lot Shannon. I just don't understand what has been going on with me since FRM has been introduced. Before I used to be able to at least get a little bit of results at the beginning then ever since my subconscious has been playing this "demotivate" game its been consistently using that tactic since it found it worked for whatever reason. Its like I'm just stuck in limbo with no motivation to absolutely do anything at all, especially anything that would actually result in me executing (Going to Philippines/Korea, consistently going to the gym, etc). Its like any ounce of motivation has just been drained out of me.
I resonate with Darth 100% on this. I've been actively avoiding gym or going out or placing myself around women . When I do get a push,y subconscious finds a petty excuse and rationalizes why I shouldn't do or go. Or sometimes I just say in my mind I don't care about execution cause nothing will happen.
My question is, when your subconscious comes up with excuses and lies... why are you guys consciously accepting and allowing them? By allowing them, you are in effect cooperating with your resistant parts and that is... conscious resistance!
I don't want to say that I'm allowing it. I can't explain properly maybe for lack of better terms.