01-04-2019, 05:18 PM
Had the second date, it was light hearted, it was cool doing something different for a change. She messaged me after and thanked me ect.
This might sound silly, but this is just how I felt...
When we ended the night, we both had parked in the multi story car park on the same level, just on the other side from each other. We got to the entrance of the car park and it had two doors on either side left or right, I said mine is on the right side and we had to pay for our tickets so I just followed her to her side as she was walking towards her side anyway ( Her side was on the left). We paid for our parking tickets at the machine and then she said "Do you want me to walk you to your car?" I said we are on your side so I will walk you to yours. (She either didn't want me to see her car or she just wanted to see mine, as we was on her side so it was weird to ask.) So I walked her to her car and she has a much better car then me lol and when I saw that she has a nice car I actually started to think it's game over and started to feel interior about my car and started to think I am gonna have to start creating my distance now, as I so don't want to be there in the future when she sees my car and she sees she has a much better car than me.
Anyway, it was on my mind for a little bit...the drive back I didn't care as much as started feeling indifferent. But apart of me feels like I'll be doing her a favour anyway, as she can get someone more loaded, independent, settled ....more on her level.
The funny thing is if I was loaded I would use the car I have now to weed out the gold diggers, as if I had the car I want...I wouldn't want a woman to like me because of my car. If anything, I would hold off a woman seeing my car for as long as possible.
This girl has never asked what car I drive though. If a woman does it says a lot.
Anyway, I'll get over this one way or another, but wanted to express it as it has come up.
This might sound silly, but this is just how I felt...
When we ended the night, we both had parked in the multi story car park on the same level, just on the other side from each other. We got to the entrance of the car park and it had two doors on either side left or right, I said mine is on the right side and we had to pay for our tickets so I just followed her to her side as she was walking towards her side anyway ( Her side was on the left). We paid for our parking tickets at the machine and then she said "Do you want me to walk you to your car?" I said we are on your side so I will walk you to yours. (She either didn't want me to see her car or she just wanted to see mine, as we was on her side so it was weird to ask.) So I walked her to her car and she has a much better car then me lol and when I saw that she has a nice car I actually started to think it's game over and started to feel interior about my car and started to think I am gonna have to start creating my distance now, as I so don't want to be there in the future when she sees my car and she sees she has a much better car than me.
Anyway, it was on my mind for a little bit...the drive back I didn't care as much as started feeling indifferent. But apart of me feels like I'll be doing her a favour anyway, as she can get someone more loaded, independent, settled ....more on her level.
The funny thing is if I was loaded I would use the car I have now to weed out the gold diggers, as if I had the car I want...I wouldn't want a woman to like me because of my car. If anything, I would hold off a woman seeing my car for as long as possible.
This girl has never asked what car I drive though. If a woman does it says a lot.
Anyway, I'll get over this one way or another, but wanted to express it as it has come up.
