12-28-2018, 12:42 AM
Hi, i did go to a bar last saturday that was before dropping down to 42% on hybrid ocean surf to get to -41db as it had been a lot higher so shannon suggested may not of been effective at those higher volumes so i havent been back to a bar since i completed this cycle.
Cant really talk in the bars but the women dont actually look at you either on the dance floor something i need to work out they send signals without ever looking at you and for a guy that lacks confidence with women especially in those situations its hard to make the most of it so far.
Today and yesterday at shops was more to see if any looks any interest would happen not chase me and give a number but just look my way, yesterday was served in a store by one i saw at the bar last weekend but was quick purchase no chatting really from her, and thats what im noticing at my bar over the road the bartender and bikini girl are more social and talkative with everyone else but i do look give eye contact smile etc.
I guess will just take a lot longer for me as i guess im a strong resistor but since dont feel anything working its hard to know whats happening which is a good thing in a way as its a lot smoother whatever is being worked on.
I did read posts where shannon mentioned i think just looking at pictures of women interested in can still work well such as tinder, it seems a lot from the bar i recognised that go to my gym are also on tinder and many around my age yet dont get any likes back from any of them, but in saying that my pics probably aernt that good so that would be the big problem using that app.
Im guessing it will just take longer for dmsi to start working for me but hopefully not much longer to see some positive changes, i was hopeful on 3.2 but ended up getting nothing so hopefully the frm will do enough to show results i just have to be patient and give it time.
In the mean time will keep posting any changes if any happens here because if changes are happening so smoothly good to have a journal to see that, since like weight training we are normally the last to notice changes that others have been seeing weeks earlier.
Cant really talk in the bars but the women dont actually look at you either on the dance floor something i need to work out they send signals without ever looking at you and for a guy that lacks confidence with women especially in those situations its hard to make the most of it so far.
Today and yesterday at shops was more to see if any looks any interest would happen not chase me and give a number but just look my way, yesterday was served in a store by one i saw at the bar last weekend but was quick purchase no chatting really from her, and thats what im noticing at my bar over the road the bartender and bikini girl are more social and talkative with everyone else but i do look give eye contact smile etc.
I guess will just take a lot longer for me as i guess im a strong resistor but since dont feel anything working its hard to know whats happening which is a good thing in a way as its a lot smoother whatever is being worked on.
I did read posts where shannon mentioned i think just looking at pictures of women interested in can still work well such as tinder, it seems a lot from the bar i recognised that go to my gym are also on tinder and many around my age yet dont get any likes back from any of them, but in saying that my pics probably aernt that good so that would be the big problem using that app.
Im guessing it will just take longer for dmsi to start working for me but hopefully not much longer to see some positive changes, i was hopeful on 3.2 but ended up getting nothing so hopefully the frm will do enough to show results i just have to be patient and give it time.
In the mean time will keep posting any changes if any happens here because if changes are happening so smoothly good to have a journal to see that, since like weight training we are normally the last to notice changes that others have been seeing weeks earlier.
