12-22-2018, 08:12 AM
More realizations. I have a tendency to look at what other people have done to see what's possible vs following my own path and being a leader. Maybe it's fear of the unknown that caused me to believe other people vs finding my own truths in life. As if I strayed from the more known paths both my parents subconsciously responded in fear and I learned it was "dangerous".
I think breaking free from that need to know from someone else or look towards someone else before I make decisions will be a huge step for me. There's a difference between seeking advice to help make your decisions vs seeking advice and following it because you're too afraid to trust your own judgement.
I think with this sub though there's been a major tear down in mindset. But that in between state is quite chaotic. I still need to form a solid mindset that has a point of focus and direction. Otherwise I'm just sitting in a state of limbo, not really stuck in the negative anymore, but also not really fully solidifying a new sort of lifestyle to replace the old one.
I think breaking free from that need to know from someone else or look towards someone else before I make decisions will be a huge step for me. There's a difference between seeking advice to help make your decisions vs seeking advice and following it because you're too afraid to trust your own judgement.
I think with this sub though there's been a major tear down in mindset. But that in between state is quite chaotic. I still need to form a solid mindset that has a point of focus and direction. Otherwise I'm just sitting in a state of limbo, not really stuck in the negative anymore, but also not really fully solidifying a new sort of lifestyle to replace the old one.
INFP
