(12-14-2018, 05:00 PM)Shannon Wrote:Quote:Asking to stop doing something that turns you on will just encourage to do it more if that is what she wants...
Not always true. It depends on the woman and her level of experience and self confidence. I usually tell them something like, "If you want to have sex with me, by all means, keep going. Otherwise, you might want to stop, because that is turning me on. A lot. And if you don't want sex, that's not fair to me."
If her aim is sex, you'll find out REAL quick after that. But she gets the ego stroking regardless, and you don't have the chance of accidentally discouraging her if she's insecure or inexperienced.
Oh! that is even better I agree.
One thing that I know is that in most of my successful seductions, at some point, I get a cue telling me that it is a done deal and this make something click inside my mind...
When this happen, this gives me an unstoppable confidence because I know that I can just relax and enjoy the process as it is going to happen no matter what...
The funny thing is maybe the clue is totally fake and this is the following state of mind that provides me the success...
Hopefully, Mystic Pymp, you are going to have that cue that will make click something inside you making the rest easy and enjoyable...
