12-14-2018, 10:25 AM
(12-14-2018, 10:07 AM)lano1106 Wrote: This is women talk;I so agree with this. I can't even begin to tell you how many times I've gotten laid by a woman that made it clear to me that "nothing is/was going to happen between us two". I used to mess it all up when I complained to them as to why not, etc., not realizing that it is a form of sh!t test to see your reaction. When I finally learned not to be so concentrated on the sex part, and just enjoy the moment, while building the sexual tension between me and her, it was quite the opposite, it turned out many times that they were the ones begging me to do them.
- A woman that talks about sex with you = she wants sex with you.
- A woman that says that if she comes to your place, nothing is going to happen = she wants sex with you.
- She talks about her gorgeous boobs and shows them to you = she wants sex with you.
The only thing that she doesn't want is the responsibility of it happening. She is a "too good of a girl" for sleeping around but... if it was happening and there is nothing that she could do to stop it from happening then maybe she would be ok (and secretly happy about it...)
My advice is don't bring up the topic on the table unless you want it to stop. Just let things happen and escalate naturally if that is what you want.
When you can show a woman just how sexual you can be, without being needy and/or pushing for sex to happen, with a "whatever happens" attitude, they eventually can't help themselves and give in to their natural instincts. I always use the analogy of women being like a pot of water. You must let the heat rise slowly and naturally, in order to bring them to the boiling point, the point of no return, where they'll be the one to pounce on you...and that my friends is just a beautiful thing...
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