Most my life I was considered obese. When I was younger and moved twice, each time I didn't make friends right away I was very shy. My first move to Chicago when I was in 5th grade just shot myself in my foot. This is when I started gaining the weight. I was only 10 years old but I had my first girlfriend. She dumped me a month later bc I wrote a note to another girl lol. Casanova being born?
Anyways, bc of that I lost all of my friends (who were friends with her) and the only friend I made was a kid down the street. Granted, he's still a close friend but we both turned into computer nerds. I wanted to go outside a lot and do a lot of kid stuff but he was glued to his computer games. So I would stay inside, alone, doing whatever.
My heaviest was about 245lbs when I didn't actually decide to loose until I was around 19. Then I dropped down to 165lb but I realized I still wasn't happy with myself and had crazy social anxiety. So I found the Magnetic Mindset and started working on myself, dumped my gf of 4 1/2 years bc I wanted very hot women and to have a lot of sex.
When I crashed 2 years ago, I ended up gaining most all of it back. I had all that weight during my run-through of Alpha Male. But even though it wasn't as easy to attract the women as on SM (when I lost the weight), I was still dating and having more sex ever in my life. Even when girls that were skinny and good looking. Something I never thought possible for me. Yet, I was the same weight I was for the later part of my life but with a different style and mindset.
So yes, you can do it. Right now I'm about 200lbs after doing the 4 Hour Diet and I'm trying to get down to 180. But I'm dating a very slim, tall, Ukranian model.
The looks don't really matter. But I think no matter what, you should look whatever way makes you happy. And I feel the better looking you are, the more attractive women you're going to get, naturally.
Any man can look like a supermodel, I learned, it's all about the effort you're willing to put into to make that happen.
Ryan
Anyways, bc of that I lost all of my friends (who were friends with her) and the only friend I made was a kid down the street. Granted, he's still a close friend but we both turned into computer nerds. I wanted to go outside a lot and do a lot of kid stuff but he was glued to his computer games. So I would stay inside, alone, doing whatever.
My heaviest was about 245lbs when I didn't actually decide to loose until I was around 19. Then I dropped down to 165lb but I realized I still wasn't happy with myself and had crazy social anxiety. So I found the Magnetic Mindset and started working on myself, dumped my gf of 4 1/2 years bc I wanted very hot women and to have a lot of sex.
When I crashed 2 years ago, I ended up gaining most all of it back. I had all that weight during my run-through of Alpha Male. But even though it wasn't as easy to attract the women as on SM (when I lost the weight), I was still dating and having more sex ever in my life. Even when girls that were skinny and good looking. Something I never thought possible for me. Yet, I was the same weight I was for the later part of my life but with a different style and mindset.
So yes, you can do it. Right now I'm about 200lbs after doing the 4 Hour Diet and I'm trying to get down to 180. But I'm dating a very slim, tall, Ukranian model.
The looks don't really matter. But I think no matter what, you should look whatever way makes you happy. And I feel the better looking you are, the more attractive women you're going to get, naturally.
Any man can look like a supermodel, I learned, it's all about the effort you're willing to put into to make that happen.
Ryan
