Shannon's Journal Discussion Volume 3

[Shadow2200]

So shannon is the fear that keeps holding us back coming from the place of be afraid of having the girl initiate or approach us? I think i'm like most guys this is what we all want and dream of. Why do you think all the fear is stopping us from something we want?

Point #1. The conscious mind and the conscious mind do not think using the same set of memories, type of logic or range of awareness.

Point #2. The subconscious apparently embodies every past version of "you" all at once.

Point #3. Fear is an emotion, and therefore irrational. That means it does not usually make rational sense.

The fear that holds you guys back from executing can be fear of having her approach and initiate, but it is much more likely a fear of what will happen if she does. You make some mistake and get embarrassed, she changes her mind and makes you feel foolish, you don't know how to respond, you don't have the privacy to take advantage, she has an STD and you're too dumb to wear a condom, she might laugh at your pecker, she might laugh at your body, she might laugh at your technique, or how long you last, she might get pregnant, she might cry rape, she might tell her friends you're a shitty lover, she might have a boyfriend she's cheating on who might come after you, you might fall in love and she breaks your heart, and on and on and on ad infinitum.

Just remember, the moon might fall out of the sky and land on your head, too. And it might also be made of Swiss cheese.

Ultimately, it doesn't matter what the conscious self wants if the subconscious self disagrees and has the upper hand, which it usually does given it's strengths and the weaknesses of the "conscious" self.

Since the anti-fear mod is targeted at subconscious fear. will we notice a lack of fear consciously ie absolute self confidence?