04-17-2012, 01:10 AM
A man who looks good is pleasant to look at, but it's a rather superficial admiration and in my opinion is not the determining factor in whether we want his company for longer. I think the feeling that you're looking for is probably better cultivated by developing your internal self, rather than grooming the external self to your idea of "perfection" and then feeling smug over the imagined envy of everyone around you. I say imagined, because not everyone cares about the physical perfection of other people. When I see that kind of thing, for example, my impression is that if 90 percent of this person's energy goes towards grooming -- what is there left to enjoy? A pretty picture only does so much. It really is what you're vibing from the inside that holds a woman's interest. Don't get me wrong, taking care of oneself is nice, but when someone's major focus is on their own personal appearance they are usually a complete bore. The kind of guy who admires his physique in the mirror while he's having sex, imagining how good he must look to me rather than focusing on the interaction (laugh, but it's happened once before). Females prefer for you to focus on them.
