11-22-2018, 04:14 PM
(11-22-2018, 01:33 PM)Smuggler Wrote: Wondering if you can help here Shannon. Last Tuesday night I listened to USLM 3. On Wednesday I got a call about a job i've been trying to apply for. It sounds amazing and is a good opportunity for me. The recruiter said they've already got a team in place (New site opening) but could do with someone of my skills. I sent my CV at 11pm that night. Had a phone call on Thursday morning, arranged an interview for today.
In the meantime, it appears my relationship has gone to absolute shit and is pretty much over, it will take a miracle for me to bring this back. Now she said something interesting, telling me how she felt from Wednesday(the day after I first listened) had changed, it's more or less spiralled the whole week. My 2 days off were Sunday and Monday, I haven't listened again, I don't think I will. Is it possible that this is some kind of resistance effect of the sub? Is there anything I can do to halt/reverse it for now?
Also, I had the interview today. I turned up 30 minutes late, still impressed them enough and was offered the job on the spot.
I’m having some similar problems with my wife. First off, are you exposing her to it when you listen? If so, it may be her resisting the sub, especially if she is getting only a part of what your supposed to.
If not, she may be seeing you change for the better and become a higher value person, and she may be thinking that you are “outgrowing” her, and likely to move on without her. A lot of times when this is happening, someone will blow up the relationship themselves so their evolving partner doesn’t leave them first. Reassuring her might help.
