11-21-2018, 12:07 AM
(11-20-2018, 11:43 PM)josh84 Wrote: Hi Shannon, when dmsi 3.3 does come out i will have been off dmsi for about 3 months.
Will it help with banter and social communication skills? An example is the pub across the road gets bikini girls in a couple times a week i go over play some pool have a drink, they seem to be very chatty with many people but comes to me very little is said, clearly i need to be better at banter being more relaxed and casual conversation will dmsi 3.3 help with this?
Its good if it attracts women but if i dont have the social skills and communication skills to have them hang around they aernt going to stay for long.
Try being more relaxed in social situations. Most people are tense when they are in public environments. It varies to various degrees, but most people have small tenseness there. When you relax, you remove that barrier that prevents people from connecting with you. Also work on being present. Don't try too hard thinking of what to say. Being 'social' or having the 'gift of the gab' are overrated. Being comfortable and present in silence are what you should focus on.
