11-09-2018, 05:37 AM
(11-08-2018, 03:00 PM)Benjamin Wrote:Quote:I'm not sure that E2 or SE would be the way to go, since I don't see this as an issue that is strictly personal to me or rooted in lack of confidence or an emotional issue, but more something that is hardwired into all of us to some degree (unless you're a sociopath), since taking these types of actions that I talk about could get you killed throughout most of human history, even though they have very little downside today.
No.. you've just explained alot of why you have that issue. It IS an emotional issue, and is directly connected to your own beliefs, self esteem and such not all the ***** pua's have told you to rationalize why the way they see things causes more fear. If they told you that though they wouldn't be able to sell you bs 30dvd sets.
Because when you start to deal with that it flows more often than not. I've experienced it.
Unfortunately these topics bring in the people who post novels about women who have no idea, so if that happens I won't even reply.
Maybe you're right, maybe not. I still haven't met a person who doesn't hesitate/struggle taking right action in one major life area from time to time. A lot of times, most people will take SOME kind of action, but not the action that would be most beneficial.
I don't really spend a lot of time on PUA stuff, so I can't really comment on that. I think that it is correct that the level of action a person takes to some extent is related to especially beliefs, and to a lesser degree self-esteem. I know a lot of people who take a lot of action simply because they can't stand being alone with themselves.
From my point of view, this question of taking action on difficult things is something that a person has to monitor all the time, and that everybody can and should improve on throughout their life.
Even if I take more right action than 99 % of people out there, there is still room for improvement.
