10-19-2018, 09:43 PM
(This post was last modified: 10-19-2018, 09:49 PM by SargeMaximus.)
Hey guys, just got back from a date. I met her online. She really seemed to want to meet me. 8/10 Asian. 23 years old.
Anyhow, long story short: it was 2 hours long, no kiss at the end, no touching, no game. Just platonic, even though she claims to want to see me again.
Anyhow, the whole thing was wrong from the start. I had no balls, I was too busy empathizing and "how to win friends and influence people" on her. It seriously fucked with me. Granted, it's my fault for running that game in the first place.
Anyhow, I didn't have any money at all so she paid for all her shit. We went to a bar, she got a pepsi, then she wanted to go to mcdonalds and I thought she'd just dump me but she showed up and proceeded talking with me for the 2 hours. It was nuts. I was SO bored and asked several times if she was ready to go. She always had an excuse to keep the interaction going. So I was confused because she liked being with me but didn't see me sexual enough to want to kiss me.
That may have been another mistake of mine, however. Normally I just go for the kiss but this time I used Niell Strauss' line "do you want to kiss me?" and she said "OHhhhh no! I don't kiss on the first date." So yeah.
My own personal desire is to just not talk to her again unless she hits me up. But I may try to game her. We'll see.
Hoping my date tomorrow goes better.
Anyhow, long story short: it was 2 hours long, no kiss at the end, no touching, no game. Just platonic, even though she claims to want to see me again.
Anyhow, the whole thing was wrong from the start. I had no balls, I was too busy empathizing and "how to win friends and influence people" on her. It seriously fucked with me. Granted, it's my fault for running that game in the first place.
Anyhow, I didn't have any money at all so she paid for all her shit. We went to a bar, she got a pepsi, then she wanted to go to mcdonalds and I thought she'd just dump me but she showed up and proceeded talking with me for the 2 hours. It was nuts. I was SO bored and asked several times if she was ready to go. She always had an excuse to keep the interaction going. So I was confused because she liked being with me but didn't see me sexual enough to want to kiss me.
That may have been another mistake of mine, however. Normally I just go for the kiss but this time I used Niell Strauss' line "do you want to kiss me?" and she said "OHhhhh no! I don't kiss on the first date." So yeah.
My own personal desire is to just not talk to her again unless she hits me up. But I may try to game her. We'll see.
Hoping my date tomorrow goes better.
