10-18-2018, 10:42 AM
(10-18-2018, 10:37 AM)AriGold Wrote: That means, you define your goals in life, what you want to have.
You find persons that have what you have.
You find out what these persons have in common.
Then you decide for yourself if you are ok with being that kind of person (you should really feel into that with all the pros and cons).
Then you develop yourself to that kind of person.
What makes you think I have not done this already, years ago, and have been working on it every day since?
(10-18-2018, 10:37 AM)AriGold Wrote: Yes, you are in a lot aspects different than before. I see that. You have made a good journey. But you still hold on to a certain amount of personality from before. A stubborn person that sometimes thinks he knows it all and is absolutely not open to other opinions in these moments.
Example?
(10-18-2018, 10:37 AM)AriGold Wrote: PUA might seem like a solution. But it is like putting a mask on your face to look like the person that you think a woman wants to see. It might be the perfect mask for that woman, but when you are not good enough in "playing" that person, the woman sees that there is something wrong with the mask and she runs away. You don't have to put a mask on and you don't have to say "nobody wants the real me", I mean, you can do that but it does not help in the end. The mask will always be found out and the "real me" is just a "real me" for one moment in time. You can change, you can become another "real me", one that you can be proud of, one that reaches your goals and that you feel comfortable with being. It is not the easy way and it is not a quick fix. But in my opinion it is worth it.
That's what I'm doing bro.
