(10-13-2018, 09:03 AM)SargeMaximus Wrote:(10-13-2018, 09:01 AM)lano1106 Wrote: if she doesnt answer one of your question. It is because she has a concern. It is a big guess for a woman to invite a stranger over... Women will usually feel more comfortable to come over instead. If logistically not possible for you to invite, then propose a neutral meeting point. ie: Is there a coffee shop nearby your place that we could first meet and then decide what we do from there?
Also, here is 2 things. Especially if you plan to travel to see her, I find it important to have a phone # at least so that you don't do all the distance to end up blocked.
Secondly, I prefer to have girls come see me instead of me going to their place. Why? Because I want to leverage the commitment and consistency principle in my favor... ie: If the girl travel for 3 hours to meet and you only 5 minutes. Who is more invested?
Ah, fair enough. Thanks.
Unfortunately, I cannot host as I've said before and getting a hotel is out of the question. Next time I'll suggest a meeting place tho, and from there see if she's open to going back to hers. Would that work?
Thing is, that's why I asked her "Your place?" to see if she was ok with it. She said yeah so I assumed yes but this is good insight, thanks.
Asking "Your place?" is fine imho and she replied, yeah. but if she refuse to give you her address, that means that there is an issue. Not addressing the issue and persist made her block you because it was easier to do that than explaining what her issue was.
If you feel resistance, then fall back on plan b which is to propose a neutral meeting point. See the fallback plan as 'door in the face' technique from Cialdini Reciprocity chapter in his Influence book.
