10-08-2018, 08:36 PM
it is part of the online game. Numbers are in favor of women. See how easy it was for her to have a date with you? She can probably set 20+ coffee dates per hour.
So basically, she doesn't have to be kind and explain you why she is flaking on you. If she was doing it, she would waste a LOT of time. That might be rude but who cares when she can get 20+ dates with 20+ new guys. She just keep the most interesting candidates.
I have told many times, if you want to experience the kind of abundance that girls are having online, you need to give a try to Seeking Arrangements. I don't care that you are not into that type of relationship, the simple fact that the numbers are in favor of men. 1 guys for 25+ hot girls. That alone is highly educational. That or simply open a fake woman profile and see the huge volume of requests they get.
So the only way that I have found to keep your sanity on online dating is to minimize your investment/expectations. See it like it was a fishing afternoon. Fish might bite or maybe not.
finally, realize the minimal investment that the girl had to put to have a date invitation. Very little. There is nothing wrong with that but that means, that the date come easily and it came go away as easily.
One thing that I was doing when I was doing more online dating is to get nude pics from the girls. It has nothing to do with seeing the girl naked but if she agrees to share that type of pics, that establish the relation dynamics, it defines its type. She invest much more into you by sharing intimacy with you... It is not the pics themselves that is the endgoal but having her accepting to do it and submit to your request. Once you succeed doing that, you will rarely be flaked on as she will put you in a special category...
So basically, she doesn't have to be kind and explain you why she is flaking on you. If she was doing it, she would waste a LOT of time. That might be rude but who cares when she can get 20+ dates with 20+ new guys. She just keep the most interesting candidates.
I have told many times, if you want to experience the kind of abundance that girls are having online, you need to give a try to Seeking Arrangements. I don't care that you are not into that type of relationship, the simple fact that the numbers are in favor of men. 1 guys for 25+ hot girls. That alone is highly educational. That or simply open a fake woman profile and see the huge volume of requests they get.
So the only way that I have found to keep your sanity on online dating is to minimize your investment/expectations. See it like it was a fishing afternoon. Fish might bite or maybe not.
finally, realize the minimal investment that the girl had to put to have a date invitation. Very little. There is nothing wrong with that but that means, that the date come easily and it came go away as easily.
One thing that I was doing when I was doing more online dating is to get nude pics from the girls. It has nothing to do with seeing the girl naked but if she agrees to share that type of pics, that establish the relation dynamics, it defines its type. She invest much more into you by sharing intimacy with you... It is not the pics themselves that is the endgoal but having her accepting to do it and submit to your request. Once you succeed doing that, you will rarely be flaked on as she will put you in a special category...
