09-29-2018, 09:57 AM
(09-29-2018, 09:23 AM)lano1106 Wrote: Maybe anger isn't the right word. Maybe standing up for yourself and put back the person being rude with you at his place would be more appropriate. Next, state control is extremely useful. Dealing with people that behave inappropriately with you and express your indignation to them in a strong way should not ruin the rest of your day. It is possible to let go as soon as the incident is over. I would even say that standing up for yourself is even beneficial for your self-esteem in the long run.
I don't see a point. Tbh. Maybe I misunderstand, but "making a stand" on someone's porch just seems like a useless exercise. Turning around and leaving without saying as word is much better. People often know they've "done wrong" and chase me down and apologize.
Although I admit I don't know how to "make a stand" without it becoming a fist fight. I'm almost being literal, not quite. The idea of a conflict for no good reason irks me. I'd much rather be dealing with people who actually want my product. It isn't my "job" to make people behave proper. Now, if you're saying that it is a behavior that will make me more attractive to women then I'm all for it. But again, I need to know how to do it the right way without creating a fist fight because that's not what I want. Just want respect and smooth transactions.
I like the "walking away" technique because most PUA's seem to say you need to be willing to walk away and indeed I can do that easily. So it's congruent.
(09-29-2018, 09:23 AM)lano1106 Wrote: PUA techniques is a tool. There are inner qualities that women find attractive.
Some guys practicing PUA will acquire those inner qualities as they practice being with women.
Some other guys won't and will practice PUA for years without going nowhere.
I think that PUA alone isn't sufficient to become attractive. This is simply a tool as is DMSI. Only use the tools that help you become a better man Sarge
I have no idea what you're saying here. It seems to me you just don't know what to say to my challenge of DMSI's usefulness, which is fine.
Obviously I'm only going to use tools that are useful to me. Right now, with DMSI, we have what amounts to an alarm clock that doesn't ring but it makes a good reading lamp! So yeah, I get use out of it, but not in the area I bought it for. I'm writing the company telling them how I think they could make a better alarm clock, but they're telling me I need to take responsibility. So I'll just keep using it for my reading lamp and hope they develop an alarm clock before I find one that works (i.e. before I get PUA working for me).
