09-29-2018, 07:55 AM
(09-29-2018, 06:13 AM)lano1106 Wrote:(09-28-2018, 08:37 PM)SargeMaximus Wrote: On the other hand Shannon (this is my second cent), I do believe DMSI still needs fixing. I've been in bed with a HOT 8.5/10 woman and brought her to 3 orgasms with squirting all over her sheets and she went 180 on me and said "I don't see you that way" when I wanted to penetrate. Like, bro, that is some SERIOUSLY f*cked up shit, and something that should never happen in a million years on DMSI.
I'm curious about this experience. When did the girl told you that she don't see you that way? Was it immediately after the 3 orgasms or some time later?
Yeah it was right after. She started saying "I don't want to have sex" and I said "but we're having sex". I thought it was bizarre.
(09-29-2018, 06:13 AM)lano1106 Wrote: See, if you didn't penetrated her right after giving her the orgasms when she was naked in your bed, she may have been disappointed and may have become confused as most men would have ravished her right there and then.
That's what I did. It was insanely fast from the date to her bedroom. I'd say 1 hour total from meet to sheets.
(09-29-2018, 06:13 AM)lano1106 Wrote: If she said that immediately after you gave her 3 orgasms. Well, I see 2 possibilities. There is something called calibration. It is useful in social interaction but also in sexual interaction. It is the action of being aware of how the other is feeling and adjust accordingly. Let's say that you were absorbed into what you were doing to her and not paying too much attention to her, that may explain why she did tried to leave in the middle of the session with any silly excuse. IMHO, simply asking her what is going on and addressing the problem would have made situation recoverable
I agree with that but, again, what do I need DMSI for then? Calibration is a PUA concept I knew about long before DMSI. Nothing new there. Now, if DMSI made calibration autopilot, that is something valuable.
(09-29-2018, 06:13 AM)lano1106 Wrote: Otherwise, her reply is so unexpected, I would have asked her what she means exactly? Maybe it is nothing and once it is out of the way you can pursue your fun session. If the reply isn't satisfactory, it is possible that she is batshit crazy, I would have gotten upset by her selfishness and I would have thrown her out ASAP
You're not supposed to get upset. You're supposed to be "non-reactive". I kept my cool but couldn't hide my confusion. I couldn't throw her out because it was at her place. I left instead.
Anyhow, my main point is: Emperor's New Clothes = DMSI.
If success with DMSI = doing things you can do on your own, it's not much of a tool.
