09-21-2018, 09:33 PM
(This post was last modified: 09-21-2018, 09:36 PM by SargeMaximus.)
Some ponderings. First an online convo from tonight:
Me:
You look like trouble
Her:
Maybe I am
Me:
That’s good. You know I read your profile and it would never work between us. We’d have too much fun together
Her:
Oh really? How much is too much?
Me:
Death by orgasm
Her:
Like not the worst way to go, I imagine
Me:
Yeah with the right person I suppose. So what you up to tonight?
Her:
Not sure yet
Me:
We should chill
Her:
Maybe. I'm horribly shy so I don't do that much
Me:
No worries. I can bring over a bottle of something. What do you look me?
Her:
What do I What?
Me:
Typo lol. What do you like to drink?
Her:
Sometimes beer sometimes gin
Me:
What kind of beer?
Getting closer? I hope so.
So I been thinking of how DMSI could be improved but first I gotta say some notables.
Met with my boss in a bar today to get paid. He paid me cash no questions asked. Trust is high. This is good.
Noticed a girl or two hovering but I was busy talking with my mother who appeared after my boss left. She said she had saw me and didn't know it was me till someone with her said "Is that your son?". It's funny cause I knew this bar was one my mom frequents at and I wondered if I'd run into her. Sure enough I did.
We had a good convo. Mostly positive and up beat. I had a burger. Like I said 1 or 2 girls hovered (the one was with a guy but she came and sat near us for a bit).
A guy sitting next to me interrupted a few times. I made one word "ok" responses without looking at him. He eventually left (thank goodness). Don't know what he was trying to accomplish, don't really care either. Was just annoying.
After I left, I was sure the waitress overcharged me by a LOT and thought "damn! There's that issue with waitresses again!" but she didn't.
My mom texted me a bunch saying things like "If you ever want company to celebrate your successes, let me know" which I thought was odd but interesting.
Anyhow, seems going in public can have some celebrity going on especially when you're socializing with people.
Now for my thoughts on how to improve DMSI:
I know Shannon said he's looking to get us celebrity like Michael Jackson but I'm reading the biography right now (I love reading biographies of famous people who I think may be alphas) and he doesn't seem to have done very well in the ladies' department. Quite the opposite actually. Having been propositioned for NSA sex multiple times he always declined from what I gather. Granted, if we did get to have influence like Jackson, the propositioning would be part of it I assume.
Still, a better role-model for a sex god would be Marlon Brando (I'm reading his biography too) who reportedly always had multiple women on the go.
Anyhow, what I was thinking about DMSI specifically was somehow making the user the guy that was different and "didn't count". Johnny Soporno talks about this a LOT and if you're curious I'd suggest you go onto youtube and look it up. Basically he talks about how if you talk to women about hooking up they always say "Yeah I'm not that kind of girl" then, he claims, you can simply say "what about that guy from the club that one time?" and she'll say "That didn't count". The idea of Soporno's message is to be the guy who "doesn't count".
The reason I think we are getting closer is because if you see that message above between me and the girl from online, she doesn't say "I'm not that kind of girl" she just says "I'm horribly shy so I don't do that much". This tells me a few things: it tells me she's open to the possibility, it also tells me she's not trying to play "I'm a virgin" in order to keep me under some illusion. Obviously we need to tip her over to the "with guys like you hell yeah! Come over and f*ck me! my address is ######". This can be accomplished by many things but mostly can be accomplished by the law of mirroring (or whatever it's called) in that, if my intentions are pure (as in, I intend to go have sex, not rob or harm her) then the gate should swing open as she should be able to sense that. In sales I do this all the time by assuming rapport without ever having to build it in the first place. Within 10 seconds I was invited into someone's house yesterday, for example, because they just knew I wasn't a serial killer. They knew what my purpose was and it went without saying.
I suspect a LOT of success with women and fast sexual encounters comes down to that specific thing. To the point where the two don't really know what they're doing so much as they're just doing it. And there are no regrets afterwards because the normal rules don't apply. This can be done with everything I think, but I digress.
So those are my late-night ideas. I've even thought the "good sex" thing can be overwritten because good sex is fun sex, no matter how long or how many orgasms. I have fond memories of my first masturbation despite doing it wrong for example. Anyhow, enough of my craziness. Time to sleep.
Me:
You look like trouble
Her:
Maybe I am
Me:
That’s good. You know I read your profile and it would never work between us. We’d have too much fun together
Her:
Oh really? How much is too much?
Me:
Death by orgasm
Her:
Like not the worst way to go, I imagine
Me:
Yeah with the right person I suppose. So what you up to tonight?
Her:
Not sure yet
Me:
We should chill
Her:
Maybe. I'm horribly shy so I don't do that much
Me:
No worries. I can bring over a bottle of something. What do you look me?
Her:
What do I What?
Me:
Typo lol. What do you like to drink?
Her:
Sometimes beer sometimes gin
Me:
What kind of beer?
Getting closer? I hope so.
So I been thinking of how DMSI could be improved but first I gotta say some notables.
Met with my boss in a bar today to get paid. He paid me cash no questions asked. Trust is high. This is good.
Noticed a girl or two hovering but I was busy talking with my mother who appeared after my boss left. She said she had saw me and didn't know it was me till someone with her said "Is that your son?". It's funny cause I knew this bar was one my mom frequents at and I wondered if I'd run into her. Sure enough I did.
We had a good convo. Mostly positive and up beat. I had a burger. Like I said 1 or 2 girls hovered (the one was with a guy but she came and sat near us for a bit).
A guy sitting next to me interrupted a few times. I made one word "ok" responses without looking at him. He eventually left (thank goodness). Don't know what he was trying to accomplish, don't really care either. Was just annoying.
After I left, I was sure the waitress overcharged me by a LOT and thought "damn! There's that issue with waitresses again!" but she didn't.
My mom texted me a bunch saying things like "If you ever want company to celebrate your successes, let me know" which I thought was odd but interesting.
Anyhow, seems going in public can have some celebrity going on especially when you're socializing with people.
Now for my thoughts on how to improve DMSI:
I know Shannon said he's looking to get us celebrity like Michael Jackson but I'm reading the biography right now (I love reading biographies of famous people who I think may be alphas) and he doesn't seem to have done very well in the ladies' department. Quite the opposite actually. Having been propositioned for NSA sex multiple times he always declined from what I gather. Granted, if we did get to have influence like Jackson, the propositioning would be part of it I assume.
Still, a better role-model for a sex god would be Marlon Brando (I'm reading his biography too) who reportedly always had multiple women on the go.
Anyhow, what I was thinking about DMSI specifically was somehow making the user the guy that was different and "didn't count". Johnny Soporno talks about this a LOT and if you're curious I'd suggest you go onto youtube and look it up. Basically he talks about how if you talk to women about hooking up they always say "Yeah I'm not that kind of girl" then, he claims, you can simply say "what about that guy from the club that one time?" and she'll say "That didn't count". The idea of Soporno's message is to be the guy who "doesn't count".
The reason I think we are getting closer is because if you see that message above between me and the girl from online, she doesn't say "I'm not that kind of girl" she just says "I'm horribly shy so I don't do that much". This tells me a few things: it tells me she's open to the possibility, it also tells me she's not trying to play "I'm a virgin" in order to keep me under some illusion. Obviously we need to tip her over to the "with guys like you hell yeah! Come over and f*ck me! my address is ######". This can be accomplished by many things but mostly can be accomplished by the law of mirroring (or whatever it's called) in that, if my intentions are pure (as in, I intend to go have sex, not rob or harm her) then the gate should swing open as she should be able to sense that. In sales I do this all the time by assuming rapport without ever having to build it in the first place. Within 10 seconds I was invited into someone's house yesterday, for example, because they just knew I wasn't a serial killer. They knew what my purpose was and it went without saying.
I suspect a LOT of success with women and fast sexual encounters comes down to that specific thing. To the point where the two don't really know what they're doing so much as they're just doing it. And there are no regrets afterwards because the normal rules don't apply. This can be done with everything I think, but I digress.
So those are my late-night ideas. I've even thought the "good sex" thing can be overwritten because good sex is fun sex, no matter how long or how many orgasms. I have fond memories of my first masturbation despite doing it wrong for example. Anyhow, enough of my craziness. Time to sleep.
