09-15-2018, 04:55 PM
(09-15-2018, 04:47 PM)Infinite Wrote: You're reading too much into it.
I really do wonder how long it takes most users on dmsi to have people approaching them. Based on MY experience, the ugly ones approach me by being intrusive when I have never shown them any ioi. That was before dmsi.
I'm not implying that's the way that you do things to pick up women or that you have low self respect. Even if you were to approach girls who didn't give you any ioi, it doesn't mean that I think that you have low self respect, because I'm talking about my experiences.
Fair enough, thanks for clarifying.
Ime with DMSI, I have been approached (weak approach. Incidentals, or girls giving me shouts from across the room while at a bar) by attractive women since the first version I used (2.4 I think it was).
As for my approaching women, I just approach girls I want to f*ck. Not been successful and have stopped approaching till I learn more PUA but that's my main driving force. I don't like to be limited by "if she smiles at me" or not. Or if she's in my social circle. Life's too short for that shit.
However, I must admit the only sex I've had this year were from girls who initiated and did the seducing.
(09-15-2018, 04:47 PM)Infinite Wrote: To have women approach men, the user has to appear to be very approachable. I am not normally approachable, so for men to approach me, I would have to conduct myself in a way that I'm not used to.
I've been approached by women my whole life. But rarely had sex. I know it's a verbal game thing, but until I fix it, I'm afraid I'll be stuck in this "attractive but not touchable" paradigm.
