(09-03-2018, 04:51 PM)JCasterlin Wrote:(08-08-2018, 06:16 AM)lano1106 Wrote: I have made another dream last night. I don't understand what is happening to me. I have never dream so much since I have started AM6. There must be some dream unlocking in the program...
Not sure exactly what I can get from the dream. My kids and I were in the Avengers fighting some extraterrestrial bad guy. Lots of fight and explosions. That was as fun as watching an Avenger movie...
I am on my second reread of How to become Alpha. So far there are 2 statements that I fully agree with yet I tend to forget and fallback on old beliefs or don't fully integrate in my behavior. I 'm going to write what they are and possibly rewrite them in every journal entries for some time. The reason why I want to do that is that I have heard some motivation guy (could be Tony Robbins but pretty much all of them are saying it) that having a daily ritual to write down some goal/belief that you want to achieve/integrate. It helps you to keep those in the back of your mind.
So they are:
1. Women want foremost a man who provides them good sex. Not relationships. I am guilty of sometimes forgetting that one...
2. Woment must feel like she can have sex without consequences. Hence I have to create those situations since they usually assume passive role when it comes to sex (This one kinda contradict what Shannon says to DMSI users. Let them do all the work...). I was not very proactive in creating those situation. THAT is probably a big one why I didn't get that much action as I could have while on DMSI. Got plenty of IOIs but I didn't leverage them much. Being more alpha could have made DMSI create more results for me
My first instinct after reading this was " **** what women want" .
that is an interesting comment. At first, I got offended by it but the more that I am thinking about it, the more it makes sense.
Understand something, we all have our own demons and weaknesses. If I was already pure alpha, I wouldn't be running AM6... Thinking outloud my ahah moments or highlighting stuff in my readings that might shake my beliefs and behavior are worth noting. My issues are possibly not the same than yours...
but you put a finger on something. Why am I censoring myself because concerns about what the women want?
I would probably be more alpha if I was pushing harder my desire up to a point that could even sometimes make them uncomfortable a little bit...
It is related to self-esteem for sure. I should accept my desires and feelings and be able to communicate them with others without being worried if they will like or not how it is for me.
I should have high enough consideration for me to believe that the girls would be so happy to sleep with me that when I making them advances to them, it is a gift that I am giving them...
imho, this is the ultimate destination. Creating belief about what women want, real or not is a useful belief to help me acquiring the ability to be more open with them. This is an intermediary stage, I would say...
