08-28-2018, 08:55 AM
(08-28-2018, 08:08 AM)Infinite Wrote: They want the safety of the traditional family and grandkids.. A lot of women hate their inlaws, and they don't think about you possibly marrying a girl who will isolate you from them. Are they successful at shaming you because deep inside you think that they are right? If that's the case than you may want to evaluate how you're spending you're time.
Long story all my life I played the good son to my mother and father did what they wanted. It was to satisfy their happiness not mine. Get good grades at school, go to university, get a job now you have to be married. After one unsuccessful marriage things never worked out. They did give me some breathing space but now they are at it again. Father shames me and frames me as the failure of the family for not being married and not having kids.
Cut a long story short I created some distance by moving away from them to another country. However my mother calls me now and again and attempts to shame me into believing i am doing the wrong thing. I hate it when she cries on the phone and tells me I deserted her.
