08-22-2018, 09:20 AM
(08-22-2018, 08:53 AM)SargeMaximus Wrote:(08-22-2018, 08:37 AM)lano1106 Wrote:(08-22-2018, 08:04 AM)SargeMaximus Wrote:(08-22-2018, 07:45 AM)rayrocanaldo Wrote:(08-22-2018, 07:30 AM)SargeMaximus Wrote: Ray, no unsolicited advice please. Thank you.Oh no it's not advice dont take it like that. I am just saying I loved what he wrote down and I found it interesting but it's not to advise you. But yeah, I didnt write it to advise you, I know you dont like that. You are interested in results. I know that.
Ok, well thank you Ray. Perhaps I’ll give it a read sometime.
ION yet another girl going sexual right off the bat online. This time I used a script and got a number but part of the script is she has to text me first but she refused. Countering my number with her own saying I should text her instead. I’ve decided to ghost. If she really wants me she’ll come around. At least, that’s my current plan.
It sounds like a good plan to me. I do the same. If they don't comply enough, I kinda lose interest and it also means that her interest level isn't high enough to jump through the loops you are presenting her.
Following up would also set the bad frame of you chasing her.
With an abundance mindset, you can conclude that she doesn't meet your criterias and you move on to more interesting prospects
Worse case scenario: You never hear back from that girl and you haven't wasted time on her
Best case scenario: She will notice that you dont give a f*** and this will spark attraction and she will start to chase you (<-- the frame you want to operate in)
EXACTLY lano. Against my better judgement and on the advice of some PUA's, I actually DID contact her and we had a drawn out convo ending in "I'm busy moving" LOL
So yeah, proof positive. Thank you for sharing your perspective. I couldn't agree more.
Looks like she showed you just enough interest to try and bait you into helping her move.