Shannon's Journal Discussion Volume 3

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@Have at ye

Another is the he is that nice. And unfortunately subconsciously women perceive it as weakness. Hence when you care too much, show too much emotion. She assumes you’re a bitch. If you ignore her to the extent of extinction. She respects you because she’s like “oh, he HAS backbone, cute”

On her end it could be self esteem issues or worse, he needs to what he isn’t: more abusive.

Unfortunately very few women actually like honesty/sincerity. Or else we wouldn’t need these subs change or suppress certain traits in us.

We’ve all been ourselves prior to subs, who could we pretend to be. Flaws and all. That’s probably why he asked why she’s heading for anywhere but with him.

Thankyou for everyone's valuable insights on my friend. To conclude DMSI would be the best option ?. He admits he has self esteem issues and when he looks in the mirror he says he doesnt think he is that great looking.

How about he gives a shot at Emotional Healing first? I had and still have a lot of issues that DMSI A didn't resolve, and I don't see much people growing either after years of runs of DMSI. IMO if I were him I'd rather run E2 a few months than maybe jump the DMSI A train.
SE is a good sub too, I did feel this one, but E2 seems overall a better choice.
Also, I hope you'll make him understand that no amount of subliminal will make him change unless he really takes the decision to change.

Thanks mate will send him links for both subs and he can decide what to use.