08-09-2018, 01:38 AM
(08-07-2018, 03:43 PM)Benjamin Wrote: Thats just some bs by people who are trying to make them feel guilty for it. Most likely coming more from ugly women with attitudes that these men would prefer not to be with. Or in this case a pua with unhelpful attitudes.
Its because they are feminine and responsive. Less stupid ***** from them. I can see the appeal after dating one compared to other women ive dated.
Its like their vibe is responsive and makes you want to do things you wouldnt with other women. Like going out one night with one it was cold so I took an extra beanie for her. Most other women I wouldnt have given much of a **** and just been thinking "when are we getting to the sex".
Pua books can be just as bad as other things for messing people up too. 'A pua book told me' without real reference doesnt really count.
Thank goodness other people on this forum get this. You don't know how frustrated i get when I hear the things like "all women are the same everywhere so why bother","she's just using the guy to get a green card", or (one of my favorites) "he can't just handle a real woman". I've heard those over and over. Funny enough when I hear people asked if they have actually left the country (mostly talking about the US here) to know if this is true its a big fat no. Its mostly them talking out of ignorance or them knowing of some friend of a friend who got scammed by some foreign chick. As if a personal story can establish some type of statistic.
Are there foreign women who scam men? yes, but most of the time if the guy isn't an idiot he can see the red flags very easily and avoid them. The problem with those guys is that they are generally beta and since they haven't developed more alpha traits of not dealing with BS they will get involve with a chick and not put his foot down or leave the situation when she starts some BS up.
Other than that, I can speak from experience that most of these people are full of BS. I've been outside the US twice and been through a couple of countries. I did experience what you described in the Philippines. Like for example, my girl never once asked me for something (financially) yet I had such a good time that when we went to eat or to the movies I actually wanted to buy stuff for her since she was very "responsive" like you said to my needs. Only thing she ever really wanted was affection which I was more than willing to provide and she gave me sex any time I wanted without question. Also, when our typical western chick wants something she tries bully you, threaten, or generally act like a spoiled brat. When my girl wanted something, which wasn't very often, I gave it usually no problem because she was already acting really good the entire time and didn't act like a brat.
As for the PUAs, meh, they have a financial incentive to make it seem like all women are like that everywhere and need to be gamed. If guys realized this wasn't true and they could be at ease and interact normally with a woman, without the BS head games you have to play by using PUA techniques, they would realize that they don't need the PUA's crappy merchandise to get women. They just want you to think you "need" their shitty books/videos to get women when its not the truth at all.
"I have no use of disciples. Let everyone be their own true follower" - Nietzsche