(08-06-2018, 12:37 PM)AriGold Wrote: Dude, don't you see it?
It's YOU who gives away his power to the females.
Yes, to you it does not matter how much you love yourself because you put your value lower or put theirs above yours. THAT is how you self-sabotage success and happiness.
If you were a seller in a market you would always say "oh, the buyers always decide what they buy, I have no choice".
If you were a buyer in a market you would always say "oh, the sellers always decide how much they get for their product, I have no choice."
If a female does not see the value in you, then she is not worth the time being with her.
I've already talked about this in that post.
I don't believe I'm giving them power through this thinking, this thinking was CAUSED by their actions. It's reactionary, I didn't come out of the womb thinking like this, of course. And I believe in reality, they already have "the power" in the form of being able to make the ultimate decision on us, there's nothing of it for me to give them. We can mentally masturbate about how great we are, how "alpha" we are, but the end call on it is with them. And that for some reason they don't see value in me.
And yes, that's great, "if they don't value you, move on". But it's happened constantly over my life, so this isn't some isolated onenitis case. It's an issue of sexual attraction and value in women's eyes over a long period causing concern and frustration.
I mean I wouldn't want a program like DMSI if this was a random case of course. It's been a very long term problem, one that I'm not even sure why it's occurring and what other guys they pick have that I don't. They seem greatly unremarkable, so there isn't even some pattern I can emulate. Hopefully my value can be increased in their eyes through DMSI someday, does still seem to be a tall ask for this program to do what the concepts say it can/will.
