Yep.
My exact experience with online dating. Complete bull shit waste of time for guys.
Actually, I've had even worse ones, one in particular I had quite a long drive to meet one. After a very surprisingly awkward cold reception from her when things seemed okay beforehand, and the interaction only then lasting a couple minutes, it ended and I had to then drive all the way back home again so quick, good times. Later that night on the drive home, I got several death threats from a "boyfriend" from her cell phone. Could've been legit, could've been her trying to get rid of me for some reason. Insane, but typical weird situation imo...I never bothered replying and never looked back. I've retired from that online dating crap. I'm convinced online dating isn't about "dating" at all, and really just a business model where companies sell men this fantasy of meeting normal, accessible women there. When in reality they just force men to pay money in one way or another, to message females who are either:
1. Involved and just looking for validation or attention, with no intention of doing anything with it.
2. Involved and looking to monkey branch.
3. Involved and trying to make the guy jealous, with no intention of doing anything with you, just purely to use you to make him jealous.
4. Involved and trying to "get revenge" on a guy who cheated or who she thinks cheated, possibly with no intention of doing anything with you, just purely to use you to make him jealous.
5. Not involved, but still stuck on some ex or whatever, trying to make him jealous by having a new guy she's talking to. You. Again, with no intention of doing anything with you, just purely to use you to make him jealous.
6. Fake profile with a guy behind it in reality, gay but somehow hopes you "wont mind" when he reveals that down the line.
7. Basically fake profile with very old pictures from when they were more attractive and slimmer.
8. Fake profile made by company of hot girl, or inactive profile of legit one, to use for advertising to entice guys to join up to message her and others like her. Seems online often, but never replies or does anything to her profile or pics in any way strangely.
9. Fake account with a guy behind it, or a girl, and is trolling.
10.Women who have children and withhold that from you, until way down the line. As they want to use you as a meal ticket, and know men don't believe that's fair. So they withhold it a long time in an attempt to reel you in hoping you won't eject as by then you'll be enthralled with them I guess, lol.
11.Women either advertising cam shows, or escort services.
All the while, having completely insane standards, and offering next to nothing in return for that, and expecting the guy to carry the whole interaction. It's tiresome and boring to me personally.
That's been my experience with online dating. Total waste of my time and money. I have no interest in returning. Your experience mirrors mine 100%. They do nothing, contribute nothing, you are expected to be the dancing monkey for the whole thing doing everything and entertaining them. Completely imbalanced and they come across as low value and undesirable.
I hope if you continue you get better results in online dating than I, pal. All the best!
My exact experience with online dating. Complete bull shit waste of time for guys.
Actually, I've had even worse ones, one in particular I had quite a long drive to meet one. After a very surprisingly awkward cold reception from her when things seemed okay beforehand, and the interaction only then lasting a couple minutes, it ended and I had to then drive all the way back home again so quick, good times. Later that night on the drive home, I got several death threats from a "boyfriend" from her cell phone. Could've been legit, could've been her trying to get rid of me for some reason. Insane, but typical weird situation imo...I never bothered replying and never looked back. I've retired from that online dating crap. I'm convinced online dating isn't about "dating" at all, and really just a business model where companies sell men this fantasy of meeting normal, accessible women there. When in reality they just force men to pay money in one way or another, to message females who are either:
1. Involved and just looking for validation or attention, with no intention of doing anything with it.
2. Involved and looking to monkey branch.
3. Involved and trying to make the guy jealous, with no intention of doing anything with you, just purely to use you to make him jealous.
4. Involved and trying to "get revenge" on a guy who cheated or who she thinks cheated, possibly with no intention of doing anything with you, just purely to use you to make him jealous.
5. Not involved, but still stuck on some ex or whatever, trying to make him jealous by having a new guy she's talking to. You. Again, with no intention of doing anything with you, just purely to use you to make him jealous.
6. Fake profile with a guy behind it in reality, gay but somehow hopes you "wont mind" when he reveals that down the line.
7. Basically fake profile with very old pictures from when they were more attractive and slimmer.
8. Fake profile made by company of hot girl, or inactive profile of legit one, to use for advertising to entice guys to join up to message her and others like her. Seems online often, but never replies or does anything to her profile or pics in any way strangely.
9. Fake account with a guy behind it, or a girl, and is trolling.
10.Women who have children and withhold that from you, until way down the line. As they want to use you as a meal ticket, and know men don't believe that's fair. So they withhold it a long time in an attempt to reel you in hoping you won't eject as by then you'll be enthralled with them I guess, lol.
11.Women either advertising cam shows, or escort services.
All the while, having completely insane standards, and offering next to nothing in return for that, and expecting the guy to carry the whole interaction. It's tiresome and boring to me personally.
That's been my experience with online dating. Total waste of my time and money. I have no interest in returning. Your experience mirrors mine 100%. They do nothing, contribute nothing, you are expected to be the dancing monkey for the whole thing doing everything and entertaining them. Completely imbalanced and they come across as low value and undesirable.
I hope if you continue you get better results in online dating than I, pal. All the best!
