Shannon's Journal Discussion Volume 3

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I disagree, I think if you ignore the stuck up British girls for a while, while youre being cool, they start acting nice and friendly

I agree. There are people in Balkans that think "Oh man, these Balkan girls are so dumb and passive, they expect everything from men, they just wear their make up and do nothing all day! Just walking in the street and shoping! All they care is money and their makeup! I wish i could move in USA/Russia/Ukraine/Bulgaria/Sweden, where girls a friendly and more beatiful".

I know because i was born in Balkan. I use to live in three best cities in Balkan, where statistics will blow any foreigner away (for example 9:1 women to men ratio) and within a minute, three hoties pass by, but in other countries you need to wait whole day just to see one hottie. Even in these circumstances men have problems. It's all about inner dialog and belifs, that's why it is hard to concieve it. In my expirience, changing your outer circumstances won't do much help. Anywhere, even in muslim contries with right mindset, one can find a girl. It only takes one girl to make US happy. Only one. And every state has millions of girls.

Old saying goes; Grass is always greener... on the other side of the fence?

I've travelled a lot and the grass really is greener in other places, much more than I expected. You have to spend time in London to really see how brown the grass is. The women in West London are physically more attractive than East London it's true, but because so many men are chasing them, they can have big egos. And things seem to have gotten much worse in my part of East London. Even ten or fifteen years ago you would have seen more good looking women. It's a very drab and boring trip in to work, looking more like the Third World than Europe, and I'm glad I'm no longer looking for anyone.

Terry is spot on. There are lots of hot women in the westend but as he said there are loads of guys chasing them. I met a romanian girl who had been living and working in London for four years. She was an HB8 (hate to use this scale but I wanted to illustrate my point).

When I was out chatting to her. Her phone kept beeping she then looked away from her phone at me and said "Ohhh I have got 11 guys asking me out on dates so many guys sending me messages". Some of these guys were ones she had given her number out after being approached in the street.

Others were numbers of guys she met in bars and rich bankers and lawyers she had met at various private parties.

If you think in Balkan is different, i have to dissapoint you. Im not saying this in a bad way, because we all are here to grow, but a hot women is a hot woman, every guy wants her, period.