07-27-2018, 10:03 AM
(07-27-2018, 07:13 AM)thor2014 Wrote: I feel your pain I have a domineering father who seems to think that no matter what age I am he has the right to control my life. I put up with it for too long now I have had enough.
If your already thinking about heading back to the Philippines just do it.
I feel DMSI has helped me overcome this specific challenge in my life. Plus I have surrounded myself with supportive friends.
I've had the same. I started talking with my father a few years ago (he and my mother are divorced) but I have stopped talking to him since almost a year ago. I gave him warnings because he kept on trying to acting controlling and try to make me make the choices he wanted. So I ended contact with him. My mother is trying to be the same. I thought things would change after that last time I finally exploded at her but she still hasn't learned, so the best bet is just to leave this situation entirely. Most of my family, is unfortunately, cancerous and doing more harm than good by associating with them.
Oh believe me, I will be going to the Philippines in time. I just need to spend some time in Korea to make some money then I'm going to buy some real estate there and starting renting out or get into the hotel business so i don't have to work anymore. After going there and realizing I can have relationships without too much of the head games and shit tests, I have not interest in staying in the states. Don't feel like dealing with all the drama and BS head games you have to deal with when dealing with the local women. I just don't have tolerance for that type of stuff. The only thing that would make me stay here at this point is if DMSI final delivers and it helps me get a acting career. In which case I would be able to make a good amount of money here for a few years.
"I have no use of disciples. Let everyone be their own true follower" - Nietzsche