07-12-2018, 07:46 AM
(07-12-2018, 07:33 AM)SargeMaximus Wrote: Most of you guys tried PUA and didn't get results and switched to the "natural" paradigm. I had the opposite experience. I had no success with the "natural" paradigm, and so I switched to the PUA one.
So, I don't blame you guys for believing what you do, but I do think you're being a bit closed minded.
I still don't get why you guys insist on creating 2 mutually exclusive options where it is either 'natural' vs PUA.
To me, those are 2 facets of the equation. There is:
who you are
what you do
Who you are is controlling your mindset, the overall frame when you interact with others.
your social skills (PUA) will make you say or do precise things based on the feedback the other is giving you.
Maybe we can argue which one is more important but in my mind both are important and play a role.
