Shannon's Journal Discussion Volume 3

[SargeMaximus]

Walked past a two girls a couple of days ago, and one suddenly starts talking loudly about condoms.

Walked past another couple of girls and one said 'you see the think that just walked past, woah'. I was the only one that walked past.

I don't know how to feel about this, getting treated like 'thing'. lol.

It's not easy man. Specially when women use you for sex. Not fun at all. :/

@lano: not sure what you mean about Soporno. My point is that he uses PUA tactics and gets pornstars. If I had access to pornstars I still wouldn't get them at my current level of PUA skills.

Sarge you seem to see PUA as synonymous to a playstation or x box game. There is no such thing as a "PUA intermediate" or "PUA master". Women are not characters in a computer video game. There is no particular level of PUA that is needed to get a hot women or a hotter women into bed.

I do not believe Johnny uses PUA tactics to get women into bed. Hypergamy plays key role as to whether a woman. I have witnessed on several occasions women who will sleep with a CEO simply because of their status. Johnny I believe uses his minor celebrity status to get porn stars into bed.

Did Peter Stringfellow use PUA tactics to bed porn and celeb stars ?

Does Danny Devito use PUA to bed hot women ?. I mean if he wasn't a celebrity he would have a very hard time bedding women.

All these guys who do bed women using their status are not afraid of flaunting their sexuality.

My problem with this explanation is that it puts success as depending on some exterior factor. ie: fame.

I belief that you have the power to change and become who you want to be.

If Soporno is able to do it, then all of us can.

Celebrity is a choice. People will react to you based on your own self-image and your behavior and you have control on those.

There is this excellent book from Robert Green and 50th cents.
One day, 50th cents decided that he would become a big-shot and he started to behave accordingly and then become famous.

It was not the other way around. ie: Became famous then changed his behavior...

Just saw this, very true. We decide to shape the world around us. Like Jordan Belfort says "You make the world YOUR way".

Any time you're relying on outside things for your success you will see less results. This happens to me in sales all the time. I decide to ask people "Are you interested?" in vibe, and of course, they won't be. But if you're vibe says "you're going to be interested" people will conform just because your reality is so strong.


The stronger reality wins" is definitely a thing, and I believe DMSI is working on this to some degree. We just need to see it follow-through. For example, with the 8.5 I was with, she decided she didn't want to see me anymore, thus her reality was stronger. If mine was, no matter how I acted it would not have mattered.

When a woman is under a man's influence, she will ignore all shortcomings to be with him. Just look at Peter Dinklages wife. They have kids together and she's not bad looking (7.5-8/10 for me, depending on makeup) yet he's a midget. Looks play NO role. And he got famous because he DESCIDED he wanted to be and made the decision.



Bottom line: Stop being a victim. PUA teaches us that there is something WE can do to change our results. I agree.