07-10-2018, 04:24 PM
Every so often I have a dream that I know is DMSI-related, and this morning was one of those dreams. I've dreamt about being Chandler from Friends once or twice before, but previously it didn't feel like a DMSI-related dream. In this dream, Rachel and Phoebe told me they each might be pregnant with my baby and just came back from the doctor; I had responded passionately that whatever each chose to do regarding keeping the babies or abortion I would support them 100%, then they each told me the doctor said they were pregnant and both hugged me glad I would honestly try to be a good parent.
I attribute this dream to DMSI because ever since I was a kid (definitely at least since I was 16 and started having sex, possibly before) getting a girl unexpectedly pregnant was a worry of mine, though I always thought it was just something to keep in mind when looking to have sex rather than something that should govern my actions. To me, it seems that if it's significant enough to dream about it then it's significant enough to be addressed, and apparently I'm more worried about unexpected pregnancies than I initially thought. Worried enough that there is a defense mechanism against having sex, though?
I attribute this dream to DMSI because ever since I was a kid (definitely at least since I was 16 and started having sex, possibly before) getting a girl unexpectedly pregnant was a worry of mine, though I always thought it was just something to keep in mind when looking to have sex rather than something that should govern my actions. To me, it seems that if it's significant enough to dream about it then it's significant enough to be addressed, and apparently I'm more worried about unexpected pregnancies than I initially thought. Worried enough that there is a defense mechanism against having sex, though?
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