06-12-2018, 11:03 AM
(06-11-2018, 06:58 PM)Shannon Wrote:(06-11-2018, 01:49 PM)KingDavid93 Wrote: Shannon,
I believe that the ARA needs to be supremely beefed up.
I’ve noticed that when I’m very close to closing, like when it’s a sure thing and I’m 99% there I go into this state of anxiety/fear which doesn’t seem logical to me in the least bit, it’s very annoying and has been going on for a while now (I’ve had this even before DMSI). It usually involves stomach pains, the runs and/or feelings of constipation, sometimes my body will begin to shake involuntarily as if it’s freezing cold even when it’s very warm. When I push through this it usually leads me to ejaculating much earlier than I’d like- as if my body is screaming at me to finish and get out of there ASAP (even with a condom).
But when I’m drunk (and not even that drunk- think 4-6 shots or so) this all completely evaporates. I feel strong and in control and can go as long as I like- I actually hit a PR the other night at about 3 hrs in one round (around 5-7 shots of rum).
What is this? The reasoning/cause behind this has long eluded me and I just need to get rid of it already
Any input you can give me will be well appreciated.
What you're seeing is that alcohol is physically disabling the part of your brain that is responsible for your anxiety being physically expressed. ARA is apparently being overridden by fear based resistance. Why, I don't know; you'll have to ask your subconscious what it fears and why. How many loops are you using it for?
I’m working my way up to an average of 7 loops a day, I’m averaging 3-4 a day but have done upwards of 8-9 loops in a day.
I am currently on A, but will start doing A and B back and forth (2 weeks each).
