SargeMaximus: Time to Heal (DMSI 3.2A)

[SargeMaximus]

Some of this stuff is chicken and egg it seems. You need XP to not be desperate. But how do you start with no XP? You're desperate. You can do things to minimize this by doing lots of approaches. She was off of tinder right?

You're right. She did get her orgasms for free. Good observation. Most guys would jump at the oppertunity to give her oral (even with a std) to get their d!ck wet.

Say "no" more often.

I dont think DMSI will do EVERYTHING for you. You still will need to be observant and go with your gut and have standards of what you will/wont accept in a partner.

You know, I used to do a lot of PU stuff, I leave out the "A" in PUA because thats the sleazy part I think. Its obsessive. Anyway, I dont do it anymore, I became it. I naturally tease and push-pull and all those things. Its supposed to be a "guide" not a rule, if you know what I mean.

I hear you. Honestly, I was "being myself" more with this girl than any other girl. Simply because she contacted me first, and did everything (lead the whole interaction).

SO, I simply assumed it was DMSI. Women are supposed to seduce us, right?

Well, there it was: Working. Then it just didn't lol.

Also, "standards" is a technique to me. Because this girl didn't do anything to make me want to say no to her the whole time. She treated me well and everything, so when she DID start doing things I didn't like (patting me, acting motherly, refusing to have sex/blow me) it was too late (she had gotten hers).

SO, if I had been enforcing some kind of standards, it would have all been fake.

So it's laughable, especially when Shannon tries to make it like this is some kind of "PUA attempt" gone wrong, when really I did less pick up with this girl than any other.

It's a true testament to DMSI (she was definitely a manifestation) but if there were some standards or boundaries to enforce, I didn't see them. And if I had, it would have been "fake" or a technique.

So this is a long way of saying: I think using PUA techniques would serve me well. lol

Also, if we could have that kind of stuff put into the training aspects of DMSI, that'd be great. If not, guess I'll just have to learn how to by reading more PUA.

The interaction went exactly how I wanted it to till she refused to have sex wit me. Just being honest here.