Some of this stuff is chicken and egg it seems. You need XP to not be desperate. But how do you start with no XP? You're desperate. You can do things to minimize this by doing lots of approaches. She was off of tinder right?
You're right. She did get her orgasms for free. Good observation. Most guys would jump at the oppertunity to give her oral (even with a std) to get their d!ck wet.
Say "no" more often.
I dont think DMSI will do EVERYTHING for you. You still will need to be observant and go with your gut and have standards of what you will/wont accept in a partner.
You know, I used to do a lot of PU stuff, I leave out the "A" in PUA because thats the sleazy part I think. Its obsessive. Anyway, I dont do it anymore, I became it. I naturally tease and push-pull and all those things. Its supposed to be a "guide" not a rule, if you know what I mean.
You're right. She did get her orgasms for free. Good observation. Most guys would jump at the oppertunity to give her oral (even with a std) to get their d!ck wet.
Say "no" more often.
I dont think DMSI will do EVERYTHING for you. You still will need to be observant and go with your gut and have standards of what you will/wont accept in a partner.
You know, I used to do a lot of PU stuff, I leave out the "A" in PUA because thats the sleazy part I think. Its obsessive. Anyway, I dont do it anymore, I became it. I naturally tease and push-pull and all those things. Its supposed to be a "guide" not a rule, if you know what I mean.