05-31-2018, 06:33 AM
(This post was last modified: 05-31-2018, 08:25 AM by Determined.)
(05-31-2018, 03:43 AM)thor2014 Wrote: Determined becareful being curious about the world we live in.and the vast ecosystem can sometimes backfire.
DMSI is moulding you into a poweful man who wants to learn from othwr peoples mistakes.This is good !.
I'm just observing and learning. I could trace this guys whole life trajectory and see all the mistakes he's made at various points (mostly stemming from a lack of awareness of himself, his behaviour and consequences).
In addition, what you're effectively doing by saying "be careful" is unintentionally setting a warning frame around me which would invite disaster as it is a presupposition to that statement. I appreciate the concern but no thank you.
Two random thoughts I had today which I feel I can get enormous value from, the first relates to your comment.
1. Framing is everything. It popped into my mind today that there is a book called "Mind Lines" which has 11 techniques to reframe anything. Much like mental karate. Furthermore, Members here like Greenduck suffer from having other people set frames around them (his mother in his case) and not having the tools for personal freedom (I recommended "compartmentalisation" to him which is effectively delineating concepts in one's mind through proper frame control).
https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Compartmen...sychology)
The realisation I had was this, you're either setting frames or you're having frames set around you. Donald Trump is a master of frame control and it's one of the reasons why he's so successful. So as a mature, confident man whose taking his destiny into his own hands, I'll be taking this book with me overseas when I spend a month at a spiritual retreat for some long needed R and R.
2. This one was quite amusing but short lived. I had the thought pop into my mind that I should experiment dressing like a woman and completely embody their mind and spirit. The purpose of this is to understand them better. If I can achieve an intuitive understanding of what's going through a woman's mind, it'll make getting into her pants a hell of a lot easier. I can't see myself going through with this in the foreseeable future but never say never.
