05-22-2018, 09:32 PM
So today I went to Walmart to do some shopping.
There were a TON of hot girls there and I wanted to get some numbers but I couldn't approach. Too much in my head like thoughts like these:
- "Don't want to be the guy approaching every girl I see"
Just very sensitive to how other people would perceive me. Either bad or good, either way it was bad.
If people saw it as bad, I would get in shit for it. If they saw it as amazing, I'd be in the spotlight which I don't want.
Definitely something I need help overcoming as it is by far my most prominent sticking point when it comes to cold approach pick up.
Saw one girl in there several times. I was hovering near her twice and couldn't make myself talk to her. In that regard, it would help to have a verbal stack which I still need to develop. I'll do that this week so I have a go-to.
There were a TON of hot girls there and I wanted to get some numbers but I couldn't approach. Too much in my head like thoughts like these:
- "Don't want to be the guy approaching every girl I see"
Just very sensitive to how other people would perceive me. Either bad or good, either way it was bad.
If people saw it as bad, I would get in shit for it. If they saw it as amazing, I'd be in the spotlight which I don't want.
Definitely something I need help overcoming as it is by far my most prominent sticking point when it comes to cold approach pick up.
Saw one girl in there several times. I was hovering near her twice and couldn't make myself talk to her. In that regard, it would help to have a verbal stack which I still need to develop. I'll do that this week so I have a go-to.