My EPHRA 2.0 Journal

[Zane]

Hi man,

I'm also struggling with the habit of comparing myself to others, especially people who are successful, strong, confident, or any good attribute. But it's getting better. And I know when comparing you both overlook your own good sides and you don't see the other person for who he or she is, but you just stay in your head. I noticed it get better when you get to know the person you are comparing yourself with.

Also think my issues stems from my mother's narcissistic tendencies and inability to see her child, me, for who I am, rather as seeing it as an extension of herself, thus making it possible to compare. We are so much more than we think, and we can't be compared because we are all amazing. Good luck with your healing!

I have a strong marriage & my wife is my best friend.

I don't drink

I don't do drugs of any kind other than the ones I'm prescribed.

I just received acknowledgement as employee of the month for the team I'm on at work.

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He is in the process of getting divorced

Losing his family because of his alcohol addiction

He can't hold down a job or will quit one for a plethora of lame excuses

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I think we all know whose in better position and who isnt..