(05-02-2018, 07:16 PM)samba99 Wrote: It is true that we influence people without being aware. For example praying. If you pray for someone, doesn’t that mean you influcing that person?Yes good point. And people can be influenced too from negative vibes from others (hate, jealousy, ect) even thought they aren't aware of it.
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Quote:Suffering doesn't mean you are bad, again bad is your perception of the event. In the greater scheme of your life some great suffering may lead you to the best outcome that you needed in order to grow, if you remove that great suffering you wouldn't have grown and become a better person. Let's a good example from this forum, a girl reject you badly and you had an horrible experience with her. You start to wonder why it happened, and you search for an answer, then you realize you didn't do the right thing and then you start to change.You're right but why do some people need to go through suffering to grow when others don't ? I documented myself about question a while back and it seems it's about learning a lesson from past-life errors. Something like that.
