04-29-2018, 02:08 AM
Hey Sarge,
what I notice about you is that once something goes well you think everything in that area will go well and once something challenging happens you think you are doomed. You place too much value on what is happening on that one day. If five women smile at you and you have a nice talk you feel like all women want you and when nobody looks at you you think all of them hate you. You let every self image be destroyed on the first challenge and then you have to build it up again.
It's like you play tennis, win some matches and the first match you loose is that you think "I'm no good at this, I should give up".
Look at the graph that Determined put up. Don't stop at the valley of despair. Push through. Find out what you need most to get better and then get better. Don't be like a pinball that rolls in which direction it is being pushed. Be a man who will succeed no matter how long it takes. Be a man that talks about his success and about how he is handling all challenges. Be the man that is bigger than all challenges.
what I notice about you is that once something goes well you think everything in that area will go well and once something challenging happens you think you are doomed. You place too much value on what is happening on that one day. If five women smile at you and you have a nice talk you feel like all women want you and when nobody looks at you you think all of them hate you. You let every self image be destroyed on the first challenge and then you have to build it up again.
It's like you play tennis, win some matches and the first match you loose is that you think "I'm no good at this, I should give up".
Look at the graph that Determined put up. Don't stop at the valley of despair. Push through. Find out what you need most to get better and then get better. Don't be like a pinball that rolls in which direction it is being pushed. Be a man who will succeed no matter how long it takes. Be a man that talks about his success and about how he is handling all challenges. Be the man that is bigger than all challenges.
