04-19-2018, 08:47 PM
So I've been frustrated the last few days.
Not in a "my frustration is hijacking my rational mind" way, but more in a "this is a shit situation and things need to change. NOW." way.
Basically I've been thinking about that girl I went on the date with.
Personally, she was a solid 8/10. Both physically AND personality-wise. Yet, for whatever reason, I wasn't able to overcome the ASD and she wasn't able to give in to my attempts to do so and we will probably never see each other again.
Sure, you can say "have abundance" or "plenty of fish in the sea!" or "it's her loss bro!" but you know what I say to that? I say that's a shit mentality that likes to quit and make excuses instead of succeed.
Now, you could say the same thing about ME, except that I did the best I could with the information I had at the time, so I have no regrets. EXCEPT, I thought running DMSI was supposed to help in this area.
I honestly expect more from the program.
I agree entirely with Shadow's assessment:
That has been my experience as well.
The girl I went out with was SO into me, but her ASD and LMR was ridiculous. This is not what DMSI is supposed to be doing. It's supposed to make things EASIER.
That's all I want to say on the subject for now.
ION, today in sales a guy I sold on Wednesday drove up beside me and told me of an offer he received from another rep. He told me he refused the deal but made it very clear to me that he wanted the deal.
From what I understand, unless I can get him the same deal, he'll cancel his order with me and go to the other guy.
This is an INSANE level of loyalty on his part. EXACTLY what you want as a salesman. So I thought that was cool.
Also, a woman (definitely NOT my type) working at the gas station I frequent at chatted me up today. I thought that was interesting. She was definitely affected. However, for the most part, women do not seem affected by me. Especially ones I find attractive.
Not in a "my frustration is hijacking my rational mind" way, but more in a "this is a shit situation and things need to change. NOW." way.
Basically I've been thinking about that girl I went on the date with.
Personally, she was a solid 8/10. Both physically AND personality-wise. Yet, for whatever reason, I wasn't able to overcome the ASD and she wasn't able to give in to my attempts to do so and we will probably never see each other again.
Sure, you can say "have abundance" or "plenty of fish in the sea!" or "it's her loss bro!" but you know what I say to that? I say that's a shit mentality that likes to quit and make excuses instead of succeed.
Now, you could say the same thing about ME, except that I did the best I could with the information I had at the time, so I have no regrets. EXCEPT, I thought running DMSI was supposed to help in this area.
I honestly expect more from the program.
I agree entirely with Shadow's assessment:
(04-19-2018, 08:15 PM)Shadow2200 Wrote: To me it seems the affected are resisting the sub. They are some what affected but no strong enough to make them do much about it
That has been my experience as well.
The girl I went out with was SO into me, but her ASD and LMR was ridiculous. This is not what DMSI is supposed to be doing. It's supposed to make things EASIER.
That's all I want to say on the subject for now.
ION, today in sales a guy I sold on Wednesday drove up beside me and told me of an offer he received from another rep. He told me he refused the deal but made it very clear to me that he wanted the deal.
From what I understand, unless I can get him the same deal, he'll cancel his order with me and go to the other guy.
This is an INSANE level of loyalty on his part. EXACTLY what you want as a salesman. So I thought that was cool.
Also, a woman (definitely NOT my type) working at the gas station I frequent at chatted me up today. I thought that was interesting. She was definitely affected. However, for the most part, women do not seem affected by me. Especially ones I find attractive.
