04-19-2018, 07:58 AM
(04-17-2018, 09:05 AM)SargeMaximus Wrote: Well, had the date. The woman was SO sensual and sexual. Didn't have sex with her tho. She stood her ground in not going up to her apartment after I had walked her there and she got ravenous going for the kiss. We did kiss a few times but I was trying not to because kissing on the first date is supposed to kill your chances.
What? Where did you hear this crap from? Joking, right?
Quote:That girl I went out with has blocked me on okc. What the actual f*ck.
At least, I assume that's what happened as I don't see our convo anymore.
Yeah, because you probably came across as a clueless prude, no offense. When you're at her door, and you're ravenously making out and she's groping you and you're touching her ass like that, that's a sign to escalate. You should have said, "Let's go in." ASD/LMR (Anti-Slut Defense and Last Minute Resistance) is a common thing when it comes to escalation. All you need to do is practice the two steps forward, one step back rule.
She blocked you because you fucked up.
At least action is coming your way though. Recalibrate and, for crying out loud, check your damn sources. That tidbit about kissing on the first date actually hurt and gave me a headache to read.
"A man who loves women is loved by women."