03-04-2012, 10:15 AM
(This post was last modified: 03-04-2012, 10:16 AM by LionMonkey.)
Stage 1 - Day 20,
Turns out the girl lost attraction for me after our 2. date;
Life is like a box of chocolates!
Had planned to meet a cute girl earlier yesterday for our 3.rd date. I've used plenty of time to set it up and putting effort in it. (Also really the first girl I really have put effort in it and forethought about it)
Though I were going to bars friday night. Ends up I meet a girl and we hit it off. With no to very little sleep because of the cute girl I met in the bar. I took off from our room and went out with the girl I had planned to go out with.
When we were out I immediately found out and felt this feeling that she didn't wanted it. Every time I kissed her she would just give a quick one.
In the end on our way home from some bowling, she could choose to go home and meet with her friends later or come home with me. I tell her what I thought and was being open and honest to her and she tells me that I'm too sweet / I've become too sweet.
I'm like laughing out loud to myself. Thinking, "really? I just had an amazing time with this other cute girl last night. This was definitely not what I had expected, especially because she accepted to go out with me one more time even though our second date went very badly."
I was looking forward to please this girl, to give her the best treat, had planned a good sweet surprise, yet she didn't want it.
So I didn't tell her about the surprise I was going to give her, (Ben&Jerry's, Champagne, Dark chocolate) and I kissed her a quick kiss in the end and wished her the best (the sweet luxuries are going to another cute girl ;-))...
- LM
Turns out the girl lost attraction for me after our 2. date;
Life is like a box of chocolates!
Had planned to meet a cute girl earlier yesterday for our 3.rd date. I've used plenty of time to set it up and putting effort in it. (Also really the first girl I really have put effort in it and forethought about it)
Though I were going to bars friday night. Ends up I meet a girl and we hit it off. With no to very little sleep because of the cute girl I met in the bar. I took off from our room and went out with the girl I had planned to go out with.
When we were out I immediately found out and felt this feeling that she didn't wanted it. Every time I kissed her she would just give a quick one.
In the end on our way home from some bowling, she could choose to go home and meet with her friends later or come home with me. I tell her what I thought and was being open and honest to her and she tells me that I'm too sweet / I've become too sweet.
I'm like laughing out loud to myself. Thinking, "really? I just had an amazing time with this other cute girl last night. This was definitely not what I had expected, especially because she accepted to go out with me one more time even though our second date went very badly."
I was looking forward to please this girl, to give her the best treat, had planned a good sweet surprise, yet she didn't want it.
So I didn't tell her about the surprise I was going to give her, (Ben&Jerry's, Champagne, Dark chocolate) and I kissed her a quick kiss in the end and wished her the best (the sweet luxuries are going to another cute girl ;-))...
- LM
1. Do whatever you want.. risk whatever your gut tells you because.. you know you have good intentions.
2. Pressure forms the man.
3. Clarity gives space for better decisions.
