04-08-2018, 11:35 PM
(04-08-2018, 10:37 PM)Determined Wrote:(04-08-2018, 09:25 AM)Mr. Anderson Wrote:(04-08-2018, 08:23 AM)Shannon Wrote: I'm not against porn and masturbation. I am very much against intentionally using them to derail DMSI as an escape route, consciously or subconsciously. Which is why we have them targeted in The Wall. There is a huge difference between "some guys get laid while masturbating to porn" and "some guys use porn and masturbation to avoid getting to the goals of DMSI". Sadly, the logic of that is not readily apparent to everyone.
If you want to achieve the goals of DMSI, you don't fight for your right to masturbate to porn. You use that energy to motivate achieving the goals of DMSI instead. Just sayin.
I don't necessarily see a contradiction in wanting to reach DMSI goals and still wanting to masturbate. But I think one of the reasons I am against this module is the fact that until now masturbation was the only reliable way to experience sexual satisfaction in my life (escorts are too expensive for regular use) and now you want to take even this away with the script. And there is still no guarantee (and probably will never be) that I will execute one day fully and have an abundance of women in my life and therefore don't need to masturbate anymore.
What would you do if DMSI didn't exist?
Relevant discussion only please. We're getting a bit off topic.
ION, have a woman interacting with me online. She's talking about sex and what she wants with me which is good. Part of me thinks it's a guy/catfish but I'm moving towards meeting in person so we'll see. Obviously, I won't be doing anything like cam shows or anything. Meet in person or I move on.
I also have another girl talking with me online who I thought went off me but she's back. All good signs.
