04-08-2018, 08:50 AM
(04-08-2018, 08:23 AM)Shannon Wrote: I'm not against porn and masturbation. I am very much against intentionally using them to derail DMSI as an escape route, consciously or subconsciously. Which is why we have them targeted in The Wall. There is a huge difference between "some guys get laid while masturbating to porn" and "some guys use porn and masturbation to avoid getting to the goals of DMSI". Sadly, the logic of that is not readily apparent to everyone.
If you want to achieve the goals of DMSI, you don't fight for your right to masturbate to porn. You use that energy to motivate achieving the goals of DMSI instead. Just sayin.
I see what you're saying Shannon. Honestly, I have nothing against NOT using porn. I've done so recently for quite a while and have in the past for months on end.
My concern is that, I, personally, use porn for entertainment. It's one of the few things that satisfies a lot of things for me, so it's the perfect tool.
It also seems to help me stay out of my head unlike anything else which helps me in sales and in general.
My concern is, that by blocking this, I'll end up in my head too much and suffer in sales which is exactly what's been happening to me.
Now you may say "correlation does not equal causation" which is all fine and good, but eventually I have to trust myself, my instincts, and follow the success. I speak of success in sales, not with women. Honestly, sales is more important. If I can't make a living, forget about getting laid with any quality woman.
