lol Stop looking for it and allow it to be a realization after the fact. I would never have ended up in the relationship with my perfect lover if I was looking for perfect. It was only after a few weeks of being together and dating and playing that I realized what and who she was. I certainly would never have guessed she was black, or Jamaican! In fact she's the only black woman I ever dated, and one of only two I ever found attractive enough to date. "Perfect" isn't always obvious to begin with. Let it be.
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The scientist has a question to find an answer for. The pseudo-scientist has an answer to find a question for. ~ "Failure is the path of least persistence." - Chinese Fortune Cookie ~ Logic left. Emotion right. But thinking, straight ahead. ~ Sperate supra omnia in valorem. (The value of trust is above all else.) ~ Meowsomeness!